Love is a choice and a decision because your actions determine if it lives on or ends. You are in control of how you act in your relationships and how much you push past conflict and challenges.
The cultivation of communication, trust, and emotional security represents a conscious and intentional decision within the framework of love.
Engaging in the cultivation of communication, trust, intimacy, or emotional security constitutes a deliberate choice to embrace and prioritise love. Neurotransmitters related to love can have a powerful effect on behaviour.
However, your behaviour is not involuntary.
