1. The Basics

  1. What’s my full name — and how do I actually like it said?

  2. What’s my zodiac sign and do I believe in it?

  3. What’s my favourite colour in practice (not just in theory)?

  4. What’s my comfort food when I’ve had a bad day?

  5. What time of day am I most creative?

  6. What kind of weather makes me happiest?

  7. What scent feels like “home” to me?

  8. Coffee, tea, or something else entirely?

  9. Am I more likely to be early, on time, or fashionably late?

  10. What’s my go-to order when I can’t decide?

2. Personality & Quirks

  1. What’s my love language?

  2. Am I introverted, extroverted, or something in between?

  3. What small thing instantly annoys me?

  4. What small thing instantly delights me?

  5. How do I react when I’m nervous?

  6. What kind of humour cracks me up every time?

  7. What’s a phrase or saying I overuse?

  8. What’s my signature facial expression when I’m unimpressed?

  9. What am I like when I’m tired?

  10. What am I like when I’m proud of myself?

 3. Communication Style

  1. How do I show I care without saying “I love you”?

  2. When I’m upset, do I want advice or empathy first?

  3. How can you tell I’m masking stress?

  4. What do I need from someone when I’m overwhelmed?

  5. How do I respond to compliments?

  6. Do I tend to talk through things or retreat and think first?

  7. What kind of message (text, voice, meme, etc.) cheers me up fastest?

  8. What tone should you avoid with me in an argument?

  9. What does my silence usually mean?

  10. How do I apologise when I really mean it?

4. Everyday Life

  1. What’s my morning ritual?

  2. What’s the last thing I usually do before bed?

  3. What kind of house or space feels most “me”?

  4. Am I neat, messy, or creative chaos?

  5. What do I hoard (books, mugs, notebooks, etc.)?

  6. What do I absolutely refuse to waste money on?

  7. What’s something small I do that feels grounding?

  8. What chore do I secretly enjoy?

  9. What do I procrastinate on the most?

  10. How do I celebrate little wins?

 5. Passions & Creativity

  1. What topics could I talk about for hours?

  2. What kind of art or story moves me most?

  3. What do I consider “my art”?

  4. Which fictional world would I most want to live in?

  5. Who’s my comfort character?

  6. What creative project am I proudest of?

  7. What song feels like my inner monologue?

  8. What aesthetic or vibe describes me?

  9. What’s a weird hobby I’d love to try if time allowed?

  10. What’s something I’ve taught myself recently?

6. Relationships & Connection

  1. How do I define loyalty?

  2. What’s a boundary I hold firm on?

  3. What makes me feel truly safe with someone?

  4. How do I act when I have a crush?

  5. How do I express love through small actions?

  6. What kind of date would make me happiest?

  7. What ruins my trust fastest?

  8. Who has influenced my view of love the most?

  9. What’s my “friendship green flag”?

  10. What’s my “relationship red flag”?

7. Inner World & Healing

  1. What’s something I’m still working on forgiving myself for?

  2. What memory always makes me tear up?

  3. What helps me regulate when I’m overstimulated?

  4. How do I tend to self-sabotage?

  5. What triggers my inner critic?

  6. What’s my personal definition of peace?

  7. What does “home” mean to me emotionally?

  8. When do I feel most powerful?

  9. When do I feel most small?

  10. What helps me get out of a funk?

8. Growth & Philosophy

  1. What lesson keeps repeating in my life?

  2. What’s something I’ve unlearned recently?

  3. What’s my biggest ongoing curiosity?

  4. Do I believe people can change easily?

  5. How do I define success?

  6. What would “future me” thank me for today?

  7. What do I want my legacy to be?

  8. What emotion drives most of my choices — fear, love, curiosity, etc.?

  9. What quote or idea changed how I see life?

  10. How do I react to failure?

9. The World & My Place in It

  1. What causes or issues do I care deeply about?

  2. What kind of community do I thrive in?

  3. What environments drain me fastest?

  4. How do I usually show kindness to strangers?

  5. What kind of injustice infuriates me?

  6. What would I risk my comfort for?

  7. What’s my ideal balance between solitude and togetherness?

  8. How do I connect with nature?

  9. What’s my favourite season, and why?

  10. What does “belonging” feel like to me?

 10. Wildcards

  1. What mythical creature best represents me?

  2. What element (earth, air, fire, water) do I embody?

  3. What would my theme song be if I walked into a room?

  4. What animal do I secretly relate to?

  5. If I were in a story, what archetype would I play?

  6. What’s a dream I’ve never told anyone?

  7. What would surprise people most about me?

  8. What am I like in a crisis?

  9. What’s my most random talent?

  10. If I could be remembered for one sentence, what would it be?

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