Feeling β†’ State β†’ Experience

Week One

1. Morning (2–5 minutes, max)

Before you grab your phone or get pulled into the day:

β€’ Sit or lie there for a moment

β€’ Bring up your phrase: β€œisn’t it wonderful” (or β€œI’m so lucky” or another blanket phrase)

β€’ This is not repeating it endlesslyβ€”just touch the feeling

Not excitement. Not fireworks.

More like: β€œSomething is quietly working in my favour.”

If an image comes, let it. If not, fine.

You are setting the tone, not building a movie.

Then get up. Done.

2. During the day

No timers. No sessions. No pressure.

Just this:

Whenever you notice yourself reacting to annoyance, stress, rushing, overthinking:

β†’ pause (even for 2 seconds)

β†’ β€œisn’t it wonderful”

That is it. You are not trying to fix the situation.

You are interrupting the automatic state.

Especially use it when:

β€’ something small goes wrong (goldmine moments)

β€’ you are waiting (lines, loading screens, kids doing kid things)

β€’ your brain starts sprinting ahead

This is where the experiment actually lives.

3. Evening (5–10 minutes)

This is your only β€œlonger” moment.

Lie down, get cozy, and do a gentle version of revision:

β€’ Think back over your day

β€’ Pick 1–3 moments that felt tense, off, or just… meh

β€’ Not overanalysingβ€”just nudge them

Example:

That annoying moment β†’ replay it slightly smoother, lighter, easier

or simply overlay it with: β€œisn’t it wonderful how that worked out”

This is not rewriting your entire life. Just… soft edits.

Then let yourself drift off.