⋆ finite

⋆ finite

Every moment that goes by, I get waves of...emancipation. I can breathe a tiny bit better. Is it premature? Perhaps. But who is to say how much time we have…
⋆ we vs me

⋆ we vs me

I do not know who I am. I: - am emotionally detached - am inconsistent - have no boundaries - never forgive myself - believe that people are inherently good…
⋆ EQ

⋆ EQ

Let us talk about EQ. Emotional intelligence predicts people's ability to regulate themselves, manage other people, and achieve success. Not everyone is born with it, but unlike IQ, emotional intelligence…
⋆ again with the nazis

⋆ again with the nazis

I detest that I am making this post. It comes up in conversation too often for me to ignore it so I apologise to those who love and adore me…
⋆ strangers

⋆ strangers

intended use for this song is to play while you are people-watching and take notes of your observations and send them to me  
⋆ cuddly

⋆ cuddly

It is possible to make no mistakes and still lose. Telling one’s story over & over again is a way to hold on to grief about the past or a…
⋆ 3 days

⋆ 3 days

I have 49 unread messages, 115 unread emails, 14 unheard voice mails, a stack of unopened post 2cm thick that is collecting dust on my kitchen counter, a basket of…
⋆ redundancy

⋆ redundancy

Let me make something very clear - endurance is not strength. Just because I can continue with everything that I am given, day in and day out, does not mean…
⋆ fitter, happier

⋆ fitter, happier

Phew. Who knew you could gaslight yourself? I have been sitting here thinking about how to answer the questions posed to me, and I am unsure how. In that link…
⋆ Co-Dependency 2

⋆ Co-Dependency 2

cooperative - adjective - involving mutual assistance in working towards a common goal dependent - noun - a person who relies on another, especially a family member, for financial support.…
⋆ Co-Dependency 1

⋆ Co-Dependency 1

The conversation got railroaded by someone asking if she should forgive someone who ghosted her. I have a special place in my heart for ghosters. Β  You do not know…
⋆ warmth by gaslight

⋆ warmth by gaslight

You feel happiness in intervals like tiny nibbles of chocolate, closing your eyes and savouring each luscious morsel until it is gone & the next piece is in your grasp.…