β Co-Dependency 1
The conversation got railroaded by someone asking if she should forgive someone who ghosted her. I have a special place in my heart for ghosters. Β You do not know…
β warmth by gaslight
You feel happiness in intervals like tiny nibbles of chocolate, closing your eyes and savouring each luscious morsel until it is gone & the next piece is in your grasp.…
β patterns
I remember, back in the LiveJournal days, I was in a community for abuse survivors. I never posted my own story. I just commented on those that did - I…
β he is one of those boys
you hold his face while you kiss him numbers are dictation, dictators are numb. the more i sayΒ the less you feel. abandon age for pints and ounces, and let your…
β The Prize
Q: Why do you want to fix a negative situation with someone that is always harming you? What causes you to be there in the first place? The people you…
β limited
"Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited, whereas imagination embraces the entire world, stimulating progress, giving birth to evolution". Why are you where you are in your…
β Energy
Consciousness: You have it. You use it. You know what it does. But you have no idea what it is. You can argue that everything is energy, or can be…
β boundaries
In preparation for a mini-course I will be holding for my final exam, I have been holding some conversations about a much-used (but often misunderstood) term: boundaries. In several conversations…
β talking in circles
Unsubstantiated fear = obsessive thought processes = increased unsubstantiated fear = increasingly obsessive thought processes = even more unsubstantiated fear = uncontrollably obsessive thought processes = psychosis. Welcome to an…
β ugly karma
Buddha would say, "Ugly people are ugly because of their karma". His version of karma was this: karma refers to actions driven by intention (cetanΔ), a deed done deliberately through…
β motherhood
Can we talk about the term MILF? I got called this, and a friend of mine asked me if I was chuffed. I said: "Nah. My femininity/attractiveness/desirability is hardly gauged…
β the feed
Are you feeding victimhood, being desperate or power and feeling powerful? Are you feeding inactivity boredom and depression, or are you feeding joy, purpose and happiness? THE CHOICE IS YOUR…