Love is a choice and a decision because your actions determine if it lives on or ends. You are in control of how you act in your relationships and how much you push past conflict and challenges. When you decide to work on communication, trust, intimacy, or emotional security, you are choosing love.
Saying that love is a choice means that it is often more than just a feeling – hormones and neurotransmitters related to love can have a powerful effect on behaviour. However, your behaviour is not involuntary.
