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⋆ Co-Dependency 1
The conversation got railroaded by someone asking if she should forgive someone who ghosted her. I have a special place in my heart for ghosters. You do not know where a person…
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⋆ warmth by gaslight
You feel happiness in intervals like tiny nibbles of chocolate, closing your eyes and savouring each luscious morsel until it is gone & the next piece is in your grasp. You have the…
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⋆ patterns
I remember, back in the LiveJournal days, I was in a community for abuse survivors. I never posted my own story. I just commented on those that did - I was never brave…
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⋆ he is one of those boys
you hold his face while you kiss him numbers are dictation, dictators are numb. the more i say the less you feel. abandon age for pints and ounces, and let your ash-rimmed eyes fade…
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⋆ adoption, raced
I remember my mother holding a newborn Isobel, gazing at her tiny, pink beauty and saying to me, “Maybe you should give her up for adoption.” I was horrified. Years passed and I…
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⋆ scribbles
"I realised I would not be happy without you in my life." I stared at this written sentence long enough for it to blur. Have you ever had someone cross your path that…
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⋆ The Prize
Q: Why do you want to fix a negative situation with someone that is always harming you? What causes you to be there in the first place? The people you are attracted to…
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⋆ boundaries
In preparation for a mini-course I will be holding for my final exam, I have been holding some conversations about a much-used (but often misunderstood) term: boundaries. In several conversations (and even more…