(Note to self:)
You were never the sole casualtyβand you are not the only one he has rewritten depending on who his audience is.
Let us name that phenomenon for what it is: Emotional opportunism.
Who he defends, who he villainisesβit always shifts based on what serves him in that moment. That is not just unfair – it is insidious. It is like reality bending around whoever he is trying to appease. And you were shoved into every possible roleβtemptress, destroyer, threat, therapist, saviour, fallback girl – except the one you actually earned: human being who deserved the truth.